Sometimes, we are not clear on what our purpose in life is, we are feeling down, unsure of ourselves, aimless, lifeless, unmotivated, directionless and unable to find our passion and a way to get out of this monotony.
Most of the people usually travel in the same boat. They do not know what their purpose in life is and remain confused about their goals. Nowadays, there are millions of things you can get that tell you how to find your purpose in life- self-help books, online articles and what not.
We are going to tell you four easy steps which can help you to find your purpose easily!
The first and the foremost effort you can do is to learn to get outside your personal bubble. Your personal bubble is the small world of yours in which you live and it’s not a bad thing at all; we all have one where you actually are the centre of our universe. You mostly concerned with whether you look good, with your wellbeing, succeeding in life, with your personal pleasure (good food, good music, good clothes etc.)
When someone tells you that you are looking fat or you are not looking good, it really hurts you a lot because you are in your personal bubble at that time. You actually take that statement too seriously on yourself and believe it and are embarrassed. It affects you negatively.
How to get out of it?
· When you feel frustrated, irritated, anxious, fearful, procrastinating and wishing people would be different- you are in a bubble. These are the few signs you are in your own universe and each and everything is only related to you and your feelings. Growing outside your bubble can be difficult for the best of us but it can help you in every sphere of life, be it social skills or decision making.
· When you feel or notice that you are in your bubble, expand your mind and heart. See the situation in front of you as a bigger picture; you should try empathising and understanding instead of condemning and criticising,
· Drop from your head to heart. Your heart is one of your unbeatable tools to get an insight of your passion and purpose in life. Start taking steps for doing what you actually love to do. Start with small habits of self-growth and care, When you stay connected and are inspired to your happy self, inspiration will outpour from your heart and soul. When you do anything from your heart, you naturally become more joyous and ambitious.
· The more we act, the more we get clear of the things we want to do in life. So instead of thinking all the time and wasting it, just do it. You have to do it your own way. Start taking steps towards your goals and try to do new things. This will help you get out of your own way.
Clarity only comes through the process of exploring and actions get you results.